One of the strangest things about growth is that sometimes it changes your relationships before you even fully realize it is changing you. You start noticing certain conversations leave you feeling emotionally exhausted instead of connected. You feel yourself hesitating before sharing things because you...
A lot of people think OCD is just being organized, clean, or particular. In reality, OCD is usually much quieter and much more exhausting than people realize. It can look like constantly questioning yourself. Replaying conversations. Checking things over and over. Googling symptoms for hours....
There’s this idea that being “easygoing” or “nice” is always a good thing, and sometimes it is. However, people-pleasing usually isn’t about kindness. It’s about fear. Fear of disappointing someone, fear of being misunderstood, fear of conflict, or even fear of losing the relationship altogether....
EMDR is one of those things people hear about and aren’t totally sure what it actually means. The simplest way to understand it is this. It helps your brain process things that didn’t fully get processed when they happened, which is often why certain memories...